How To Rebuild a Broken Relationship
Suffering from a broken heart is the most painful experience that a person can to through in their lifetime. It is an emotional time for both parties involved because of the mutual feelings, memories, and in a lot of cases, regret.
We get the "what if" and "should have" syndrome, which means "what if I would have said this..." or "what if I would have acted this way..." or "I should have done this instead of that..."
Startling facts show that 80% of couples can rebuild a broken relationship, however, in most cases people don't even give it a fair shot, actually most people don't even try. Why do you think that is?
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Do You Think Fear Could Be Holding Them Back?
It could be some form of fear, that most of us suffer from whether or not we want to admit it. Do you think it could be any of the following fears?
And those are just a few of the basic fears, there are many more.
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- Fear of rejection?
- Fear of failure?
- Fear of success?
- Fear of ridicule?
- Fear of what others might say?
- Fear of looking like a wuss around our friends?
- Fear of criticism?
And those are just a few of the basic fears, there are many more.
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Some people even have it in their head that they will never be able to rebuild a broken relationship, and they just accept it and go on even if they feel that person is right for them. They spend years thinking about it off and on wondering what the other person is up to, and what they should have done differently. This is very heartbreaking. What if this person is their sole mate, and they never did anything to rebuild a broken relationship?
Why Do You Think I am Telling You This?
Because I did the same thing myself, and I want to tell you, that it is no way to live. The mental torment alone is not worth it. Always wishing that you had apologized, but never did. Knowing that there is hard feelings there. It has been over 10 years for me, don't let this happen to you. All I can say is, if you have landed on this site, it is not by accident. There is no such thing as a coincidence, you are here for a reason. It is important that you listen with an open ear, and be receptive to the message that you are receiving here, find your way back and rebuild your broken relationship. There is an old saying that goes "when the person is ready, the teacher will magically appear." Are you ready?
A Wise Tip For the Guys Out There
This one is dedicated to the guys out there. Since I am female, I can tell you first hand that if your girlfriend/wife tells you that she needs some time to think, GIVE IT TO HER.
The reason I did not rebuild my broken relationship was simple. When I told my ex that I needed some time to think, he went nuts on me. He stalked me, called me constantly, so much so that I refused to take his calls. He showed up at my door countless times often late at night and scared me half to death. He would show up wherever he knew I might be, so bad that I was afraid to go anywhere. It confirmed in my mind that I made the right choice. He never portrayed such behavior when we were together, which was a 7 year relationship. He made me afraid of him. He acted like a psycho.
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A Wise Tip For the Gals Out There
I want to share the biggest mistake that I made, so that you don't make the same mistake.
That mistake was to go to my friends for advice. I know this sounds backwards, but it is true. That is what we all do, that is the way women are. I am not saying that friends aren't great, they are, and they mean well, and they love you. However, they don't know any more than you do, and here they are giving you their two cents worth of really bad advice.
What ended up happening was I took everything my friends said like it was the gospel. I was so distraught that I actually believed what they said and allowed them to do my thinking for me.
This mistake destroyed any chance I had to rebuild my broken relationship.
That mistake was to go to my friends for advice. I know this sounds backwards, but it is true. That is what we all do, that is the way women are. I am not saying that friends aren't great, they are, and they mean well, and they love you. However, they don't know any more than you do, and here they are giving you their two cents worth of really bad advice.
What ended up happening was I took everything my friends said like it was the gospel. I was so distraught that I actually believed what they said and allowed them to do my thinking for me.
This mistake destroyed any chance I had to rebuild my broken relationship.
A Word To The Wise
In the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, he quotes: One of the main reasons for failure is because people listen to others who know little or less than they do about a given topic.
This means all areas of our life, not just in money.
This means all areas of our life, not just in money.
What Happened Next?
We went our separate ways. We did not know how to rebuild a broken relationship, and made all the common mistakes, and we both moved on. It still to this days makes me wonder what if.......Please do not make the same mistakes that I did, I promise you will regret it.
Fast Forward 10 Years in the Future
I am surfing the internet, and I stumbled across this site, and this guys is talking about ways to get an ex back, and what he had to say made total sense to me. I think to myself "we would still be together had we done what this guys is saying to do." His first piece of advice tells you that you should avoid contact for at least 30 days, and that this gives you time to really evaluate your situation.
I couldn't believe what I was hearing. He also says that after your 30 days that your opening move should be maybe writing your ex a letter telling them that you agree with the break up. I had never heard advice like that before. He explains that it is a psychological thing, and that a person wants what they think they can't have, and it allows your ex to let their guard down, to relax, and once they are relaxed, you can start to rebuild a broken relationship.
It sounded bizarre, but it made sense. I mean, what I did, did not work, so why would you want to do that again. Isn't that the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results?
I couldn't believe what I was hearing. He also says that after your 30 days that your opening move should be maybe writing your ex a letter telling them that you agree with the break up. I had never heard advice like that before. He explains that it is a psychological thing, and that a person wants what they think they can't have, and it allows your ex to let their guard down, to relax, and once they are relaxed, you can start to rebuild a broken relationship.
It sounded bizarre, but it made sense. I mean, what I did, did not work, so why would you want to do that again. Isn't that the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results?
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